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Post by jolovespiggies on Oct 28, 2018 14:26:48 GMT
hello dear friends
i have been very ill and last week I thought i was dying. It was some sort of neuro virus I had and coupled with the orimorph, I was sick, bad tummy, incoherent and feeling as if I would never be well again. Paul had a hissy fit last week and said he would have a breakdown if he didn't get away so he is going to Newhaven yet again tomorrow for a much-needed break. whilst I do not like this I could see what would happen if he didn't go, he would go into a meltdown. so I will be on my own until Friday morning with just Tracey popping in if I am lucky.
I will join you again but won't be able to write full posts. in the snug, I will read the most recent post and answer vas i will not be able to catch up, there must be loads lol.
hugs
jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Oct 28, 2018 15:53:52 GMT
I'm so sorry, Jo  I thought you had a care giver with you. Gone, now that you really need her the most? Maybe she'll come back, knowing how badly off you are! So sorry Paul has gone back to his normal self, and is, once again, abandoning you when you need him the most I really wish I lived closer I hope you recover okay, knowing it won't be overnight, but at least a steady improvement. Huge hugs  |
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Post by bazookagoof on Oct 28, 2018 16:14:01 GMT
Just take care of yourself, Jo. Hope you get better soon, we do miss you.  |
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Post by jolovespiggies on Oct 29, 2018 8:59:03 GMT
thank you piggles love, yes I am on my own again. loretta is here today but after today I will have to rely on Tracey - not good. thank you too baz love, I hope I am on the mend.
hugs jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Oct 29, 2018 17:27:55 GMT
Huge hugs, Jo 💝 How long is Mr. Useless going to be gone, this time? More huge hugs 💝
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Post by jolovespiggies on Oct 30, 2018 9:18:19 GMT
haha i love that piggles hunni, it made me chuckle. he is supposed to be coming home on Friday morning - we'll see! thanks for the hugs sweetheart.
hugs jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Oct 30, 2018 14:35:31 GMT
I hope he does, but his track record isn't too good, is it  What on earth could possibly make that man think now was a good time to totally abandon his responsibilities Huge hugs, and more on the way |
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Post by jolovespiggies on Oct 31, 2018 9:08:15 GMT
I cannot work it out either love. the couple he is visiting have decided to get married after all on the 15th December, so I will be on my own again. thanks for the hugs sweetie.
hugs jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Oct 31, 2018 16:51:15 GMT
He should have to arrange for someone you like, to stay with you or at least check on you, while he's gone. Make that a condition for him taking the car. It's your car, remember. If he's going to leave you alone, and take your car, he can at least make sure someone is going to help you. You need to meet this person, and make sure he actually arranged for them to care for you, instead of just lying about it to get his way. Just because you're ill doesn't mean he gets to bully you, again. He's a great one for taking advantage of you, but not at all good at helping you |
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Post by jolovespiggies on Nov 1, 2018 9:10:29 GMT
i have had quite a few people popping in piggles love and i have had dinner cooked for me too. i do have kind friends but that doesn't excuse what he has done. everyone here is furious with him and Annie who lives across the road is not afraid of tearing him off a strip. you are right, it is all about him.
hugs jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Nov 2, 2018 0:24:43 GMT
I would say let Annie have a good go at him, lol He deserves it! I'm glad you have people looking in on you, and helping you. You will get what you deserve, and you are straight with people, helpful and supportive, so they are back at you. He'll get his. |
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Post by jolovespiggies on Nov 2, 2018 10:16:34 GMT
thank you piggles hunni for those supportive words. i hope he does get a hard time when he returns tomorrow. i have been stupid. i want to rehome some of my snails etc as i am finding it too much. apparently, there is rescue there who may well take some. paul said yesterday that he could not speak to them until today, thus giving himself an extra day there. it is crap i know and i could kick myself. bastard is coming home tomorrow. i have a hospital appointment on Monday so he has to come home. he does make me sick.
hugs jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Nov 2, 2018 18:55:40 GMT
I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. You can call the place and talk to them yourself, and take away his excuse to stay another day, but he'd find another reason, car trouble, or some other trumped up excuse Huge hugs. Also not at all surprised you're overwhelmed with all your little ones. You have quite a menagerie, and it's a lot of work to keep up. Even though Vic is helpful with the pigs, they are my pigs, and I'm ultimately responsible for cleaning the cage, etc. He has stopped me from getting more pigs, because I really can't take care of more than two. I could do three, but if I had a situation like the one at the last house, where the pigs had a falling out, and one needed to be housed separately, I don't have the space or the physical ability to do that anymore. He's right, even if I don't like him reminding me. Getting down to a place where you can handle the cleaning and tending would be much easier on you, especially since he's useless. You have Holly, and she's your main concern. You can probably manage her okay, but not all the others. Just please get some kind of verification that he's actually taking them to a rescue, and not just dumping them someplace. |
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Post by jolovespiggies on Nov 3, 2018 12:05:47 GMT
thank you piggles hunni, i am not able to cope anymore and yes, i too hope they go to the rescue safe and sound. he wouldn't dump them i am sure of that and if this does not pan out i will phone the zoos.
hugs jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Nov 5, 2018 20:53:00 GMT
Huge hugs 🧡❤💙💚💛💜 You just get better, and leave those worries until you're up to it 🧡❤💙💚💛💜
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Post by Bean on Nov 7, 2018 8:11:02 GMT
Oh no, I'm really sorry to hear you got an awful bug on top of your problems after the fall. That must have been a really miserable week, and for Paul to go off and leave you like that is inexcusable. You deserve far, far better, Jo.
What a shame you've had to rehome your snails, but I can totally understand that without support, it's very difficult for you to be able to take care of so many animals. Can you rehome Paul?! I'm not sure if anyone would want to take him, but maybe there's some sort of sanctuary for useless blokes where they just dump them all in together and leave them to muddle through?! x
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Post by jolovespiggies on Nov 7, 2018 10:33:41 GMT
thank you piggles hunni. as you will see from my post in the snug, things are not good for me at the moment. thank you bean sweetie. snails haven't gone anywhere yet and i may just keep a couple. it is difficult because when I am ailing as I often am, it falls on Paul to look after them. ha ha bean love, now wouldn't that be a great idea?
hugs jo xx
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Post by 3piggles on Nov 7, 2018 16:29:38 GMT
Ooh,I love the idea of rehoming Paul 😂 Great idea, Bean 😂
I do wish you had some decent help 😢
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Post by bazookagoof on Nov 15, 2018 2:36:05 GMT
Can you rehome Paul?! I'm not sure if anyone would want to take him, but maybe there's some sort of sanctuary for useless blokes where they just dump them all in together and leave them to muddle through?! x  |
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Post by jolovespiggies on Nov 15, 2018 9:13:40 GMT
what a great idea. he has just moaned at me because I have a hair appointment and he forgot and hasn't budgeted for it. it is always the same when it is hair day and i really hate it. love the photo baz hunni.
hugs jo xx
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What on earth could possibly make that man think now was a good time to totally abandon his responsibilities 
